I recently read Maggie McNeil’s awesome May 2015 article “Fraught With Complications” about Dating for Escorts and Sex Workers. It took me a while to stumble over it, i think it has a lot to say and recommend you go to her site and read the whole thing, not just my short excerpt here.
While I can understand the listed reasons above as being true even most of the time. There has to be a way for Women (or Men) who happen to perform sex services to find love and get into healthy and successful romantic relationships.
Most regular romantic relationships and even marriages fail after a while, something like 50+% so when adding the additional difficulty of one or both parties being SWers, I’m not surprised that “bad experience” stories are easy to find.
Seeking stable loving long-term relationships is universal for the human experience, so you will find 7 billion opinions on the matter, each with several stories. That’s a VERY big pool of good and bad experiences to draw from.
I have no personal experience in relationships with SWers, but think it very harsh indeed to accept these reasons at face value and condemn all Sex Workers to non-professional, non-romantic singledom for the rest of their lives.